It’s been a tradition for a long time for young people to grow up, make adult plans and leave their homes to start their new lives. But it doesn’t always happen that way. When the economy is uncertain or when those adult plans don’t work out well for whatever reason children sometimes move back home. Some people call that situation ‘boomerang children.’ The reverse sometimes happens too. Economic or health situations for instance may mean that parents move in with their adult children. ‘Boomeranging’ has its advantages. It’s good to know families can be depended on, and it often makes a lot of economic sense. But that doesn’t mean it’s without its own challenges. Just a quick look at crime fiction should suffice to show you what I mean.
In Agatha Christie’s Taken at the Flood we meet Lynn Marchmont, who’s just been demobbed from the Wrens after the end of World War II. She comes home to live again with her mother Adela and the two really are delighted to see each other. Lynn takes comfort in her old room and things and of course Adela is happy to have her daughter back. But at the same time Lynn is not the same young woman who left the village of Warmsley Vale. She’s matured and had some world experience and she doesn’t see things with the same eyes so to speak. She’s restless and at loose ends – something she didn’t expect. Then her family is rocked by the news that her wealthy uncle Gordon Cloade unexpectedly married. What’s more, he was killed in a bomb blast shortly after the marriage, before he had the time to change his will. Now the comfortable fortune that Cloade had promised to his relations isn’t going to be theirs since his widow Rosaleen will inherit everything. When a stranger calling himself Enoch Arden comes to town everything changes. He hints that Rosaleen Cloade may have been married to someone else at the time of her wedding. If so of course she can’t inherit. This gives the Cloade family hope – until Arden is killed one night. Hercule Poirot has already heard of Rosaleen Cloade so his interest is piqued when not one but two members of the Cloade family ask him to investigate the matter. While he’s doing so, Lynn faces her own challenge: stay at home and marry Rowley Cloade as she’d always intended to do, or get involved with Rosaleen Cloade’s brother David Hunter, which will mean a much less stable life. Her self-exploration reflects some of what it’s like to be an adult living with a parent in ‘the old neighbourhood.’
In Gail Bowen’s The Wandering Soul Murders, political science professor Joanne Kilbourn faces a ‘boomerang’ situation when her daughter Mieka moves back home temporarily. Mieka has just started a new and very successful catering business and it’s done so well that she’s opening a new location. That stress plus the stress of her upcoming wedding means she can’t really cope as well as usual with everyday life. Kilbourn thinks a move home will solve that problem and allow her to re-build her relationship with her daughter, a relationship that soured after Mieka dropped out of college and started her business. But as Kilbourn puts it,
‘But, like a lot of perfect solutions, this one hadn’t worked.
Mieka had changed. She was a woman and, in many respects, a stranger. In my more honest moments, I knew it was wrong to want her to be the sweet, pliable girl she had been at eighteen… Every morning I woke up determined to be open and reasonable, and every night I went to bed knowing I had been neither.’
The two do have their difficult moments. But underneath it, they love each other very much. Here’s the end of one conversation between them:
‘Her [Mieka’s] voice was strong. ‘I want my chance. I know I may get flattened but I have to try.’
‘I gave her hand a squeeze. ‘One good thing about me,’ I said. ‘I always know when I’ve been licked.’
Mieka smiled. ‘Don’t think of it as being licked. Think of it as accepting the inevitable gracefully.’
‘Same thing, eh?’ I said.
Her smile grew broader. ‘Oh yeah,’ she said, ‘it’s the same thing, but this way you get to look like a good guy.’’
They need all of the mutual support they can get when Mieka discovers the body of Bernice Morin, a cleaner she’d hired, in a city trash can. Then Theresa Desjalier, former girlfriend of Kilbourn’s son Pete, drowns in a lake. At first it’s thought to be suicide but it’s later proven to be not just murder, but a murder that’s connected to the murder of Bernice Morin. In the process of finding out the truth about these murders Kilbourn uncovers a very ugly connection between Regina and Theresa Desjalier’s home in Blue Heron Point.
Arnaldur Indriðason’s Inspector Erlendur finds himself in a ‘boomerang’ living situation in Jar City. He and his team are investigating the murder of Holberg, a seemingly inoffensive elderly man who lives alone. A photograph and a cryptic message suggest that this isn’t the burglary gone wring that it seems on the surface so the team begins to look into Holberg’s past. What they find is that he wasn’t at all what he seemed on the surface; in fact, he’d been accused of rape, although he was never arrested. And it seems likely he raped more than one woman. As Erlendur is untangling this mystery, he is faced with another challenge. His daughter Eva Lind shows up one night after not having seen her father for some time. Eva Lind has engaged in drug use and other self-destructive behaviour for a while and much as he loves his daughter, Erlendur can’t conscience her lifestyle. What’s more, she has a lot of anger towards her father since she feels he neglected his family. But they are father and daughter and at one point Eva Lind moves back in with her father. Before she does, she insists on making it clear that he’s not to check up on her, ask her questions about where she’s going or what she’s doing or try to influence her decisions. He agrees and one of the interesting sub-plots in this novel is the way these two gradually begin the very slow process of re-building their relationship.
And then there’s Patti Abbott’s short story The Snake Charmer, which features a man named Art who lives with his ‘boomerang’ daughter Shannon and his grand-daughter Zelda. One day Art discovers some pornographic videos under the sofa and is convinced that Zelda’s father Corey Kruse left them there. For him that’s an easy conclusion to draw because he’s always hated Corey. He’s terribly upset at this evidence that Shannon has taken up with Corey again, as he’s always been sure that the young man was ‘bad news.’ Art knows that even ‘though Shannon lives with him, she’s still an adult and isn’t going to stop seeing Corey just because Art tells her she should. So he decides there’s only one way to stop that relationship from re-kindling.
Sometimes parents move in with their adult children either temporarily or permanently and that can have its challenges too. Parents want to be as independent as they ever were, even if they can’t. And despite their children’s adulthood and maturity, it’s hard to let go of seeing them as children. So it takes a whole re-working of the relationship to make these living arrangements successful. For instance in Anthony Bidulka’s Flight of Aquavit, Saskatoon PI Russell Quant has taken the case of Daniel Guest, who is being blackmailed. That case alone is difficult enough, especially when the most likely suspect gets murdered. To add to the situation, Quant’s Ukranian mother Kay is planning to spend a few weeks with her son for the Christmas holiday. At first things are awkward. For instance Kay has traditional ideas about cooking and eating; her son on the other hand is trying to watch his diet. There are other difficult moments too. But as the novel moves along each gets more accustomed to the other and it’s interesting to see how they re-discover each other as adults.
‘Boomerang’ family situations can be very challenging and stressful. But sometimes they’re the best solution, especially when life events, health issues and the economy mean that someone can’t live independently. They’re certainly a part of real life and they can add a real layer of interest to a crime novel.













“Boomerang” situations aren’t themes I’ve encountered in mysteries so far, except Indridason’s books, but since it’s now happening so frequently in our society, it would be reflected in fiction, including crime fiction. What with difficulty in finding decent jobs, high costs of college loans and housing, it’s no wonder that so many young people are moving back in with their parents. How it relates to murder is an interesting topic.
But I can relate to “her son was watching his diet.” When I think of our diets in our childhoods, between the American way of eating and my parents’ cultural backgrounds, I realize how much we all try now to improve upon that.
Kathy – You’ve got a good point that ‘boomerang’ situations are more common now than they were. And that being the case it really does make sense that crime fiction would reflect that fact. I like the opportunities for suspense that that kind of living setup can add to a novel, even if members of the ‘boomerang’ family aren’t victims. It just makes for an interesting sub-plot too.
And about diets? I most definitely agree with you. Diets today are vastly different to what they were years ago. I think people know a lot more about nutrition now than they did.
Margot: As I was reading the post I was thinking I know some boomerangs from Saskatchewan mysteries and then you had both of them! Thus I looked to Eastern Canada.
Jill Edmondson’s sleuth, Sasha Jackson, resides not only with her father but also with her brother. They have a good relationship, at least partly I because they are rarely home together.
Hazel Micallef, the 60 plus sleuth of Inger Ash Wolfe, may have the most complex boomerang situation in crime fiction. In the opening book, The Calling, she is living with her feisty 87 year old mother, Emily. In the second, The Taken, because of back surgery, she is living in the home of her ex-husband and his wife. To further complicate matters her mother also moves with her to the ex’s home so everyone is under one roof.
Bill – I’m glad you’ve mentioned Jill Edmonson’s Sasha Jackson. Her living situation is a good example of successful ‘boomeranging’ and I’m grateful you filled in the gap my post left. I think if ‘boomerang’ situations are going to work out well, the people involved in them do have to give each other some space.
I confess I don’t know Inger Ash Wolfe’s Hazel Micallef as well as I know Sasha Jackson. But that said, you’re quite right that she has a very unusual and complex ‘boomerang household.’
I hadn’t really noticed ‘boomerang’ children appearing in crime fiction but it’s not really surprising given how families are now working. I remember in the Wexford novel (I can’t remember which one) when Sylvia splits up with her husband and moved back in with Reg and Dora.She is not the most sensitive person at the best of times and she is very disparaging of her mother’s homemaking activities.
Sarah – Are you perhaps thinking of A Sleeping Life? That’s the one where Sylvia takes the children, leaves Neil and returns home because among other things, Neil objects to getting some hired help so she can go back to college. Wexford’s investigation in that one is of the death of Rhoda Comfrey, whose body is found under a hedge. If that’s the one you’re thinking of I’m very glad you brought it up. I had thought of including it but didn’t, so I’m glad you filled in that empty spot.
You’re right too that a lot of families are ‘boomeranging’ so it really does make sense to see it in crime fiction.
What great examples – you really know your stuff! There has been quite a lot of articles recently in the British press about young people having to return home to live again with their parents, usually because of financial circumstances – saving for a house deposit etc. It’s becoming more and more common. This is very timely because I have a character in my WIP who has done just that – come back home to provincial life at the age of 24 – and it is not working out well! She has had a taste of freedom, has been used to doing her own thing and coming and going as she pleases and now she is back in her childhood bedroom. I’ve tried hard not to make her a stereotype – I think young people get a bad rap in this country. She is, in the story, the main suspect but I won’t tell you whether she is the culprit!
Fascinating – thank you!
Alison – Thank you
– I appreciate your kind remarks. There are more and more ‘boomerang’ young people in the US as well for similar reasons. The economy being what it is and homes costing what they do and so on, the best decision is often going back home. But as you say it’s got challenges. I’m really interested in your character too; not only does she face the challenge of trying to fit in again to a place she’s outgrown but she’s suspected of murder. Good on you too to work hard not to make her stereotypical. Your fans will appreciate it! Sounds quite intriguing and I look forward to reading your novel.
Great article Margot and thanks for pointing to the “boomerang” situations showing up in crime fiction because that only shows that these authors are tapped into what is going on now in that adult children are returning home and many grandparents are helping to raise their grandchildren these days. The Erlendur series is the only one I can think of off the top and you mentioned him already (for books I’ve read). It’s an interesting phenomenon and agree 100% that it adds a bit of personal drama. I personally love that aspect of Erlendur’s life where he’s having to always address his failures as a father to his two grown children. His relationship to his drug addict daughter Eva Linda is one of the highlights of the series with their ups and downs. I tend to pay more respect to authors who mimic the current society trends and try to incorporate them realistically into their stories.
Keishon – Thanks for the kind words
– I agree with you about authors who pay attention to what’s really going on in society. Their plots I think are more realistic because they reflect what readers really know from experience. ‘Boomeranging’ is an interesting phenomenon too. It’s got some real benefits to it in that there can be a really solid support system for everyone. On the other hand there are challenges. It’s not easy and it takes a real effort of good will on everyone’s part. And of course with all of the personalities involved there certainly is opportunity for a lot of real personal drama when a story includes a ‘boomerang’ situation.
I agree too that the Erlendur series is made all that much better by the relationship between Erlendur and Eva Lind. They evolve personally and they evolve as a unit too, and I think that adds to the series. And yes indeed; Erlendur has to deal with his parenting choices and that’s an interesting aspect of the series too.
Good personal drama + good political drama makes for a potent mix for crime fiction for me.
Asa Larsson’s books tend to show how cops juggle work with family and I like that aspect too but that’s a bit off topic. Have a good Saturday!
Keishon – I agree completely about how effective that mix of drama can be. And that’s one thing I too like about Larsson’s books. They do show both kinds of drama. No worries about getting off-topic; I’m always interested in what you have to say. Enjoy your Saturday, too
Now that this situation is becoming so common, I bet it will show up in more novels…and I’m sure the urge to kill from both kids and parents will make for some interesting plots.
Pat – I think you’re probably on to something – on both points. ‘Boomeranging’ is a increasing situation, so we will probably see more of it. And the fact is, it can grate on everyone’s nerves. Facing that challenging is interesting stuff for novels even if it doesn’t end up in murder. And if it does, well, there’s a crime fiction plot for you.