X marks the spot where the Crime Fiction Alphabet meme has stopped today. Just two stops to go after this one, so we are getting close to the end of our journey. And thanks to our tour guide Kerrie at Mysteries in Paradise, we’re all still together. We’ve arrived safely at the Hotel X, so while everyone’s leafing through sightseeing brochures, I’ll share my contribution: Exes. Yes, I’m thinking laterally – that’s OK, isn’t it, Kerrie?
Fictional sleuths can have extremely stressful lives, and the more devoted they are to their jobs, the more difficult it is for them to balance work and personal life. It’s not always easy to maintain an intimate relationship, especially if one’s a sleuth, so it shouldn’t surprise you that there are several exes in crime fiction. I’m only going mention just a few of them.
One of the more interesting exes I’ve encountered is Michael Connelly’s Eleanor Wish, former wife of L.A.P.D. cop Harry Bosch and mother of their daughter Maddie. When we first meet her in The Black Echo, Wish is an FBI agent; later she becomes a professional gambler. In The Black Echo she teams up with Bosch when he and his partner investigate the death of an old friend of Bosch’s from his days in Vietnam. That death is connected to a large planned bank robbery, which is how the FBI gets involved. Bosch and Wish begin a relationship that has its ups and downs; yet, they remain together and marry at the end of Trunk Music. Bosch loves Wish very much, but he is passionately devoted to the job and finds it hard to balance everything in his life. It’s partly for that reason that the two end up divorcing. Wish and Maddie eventually move to Hong Kong, where Bosch works with her again when he gets a frantic call from Maddie, saying that she’s been kidnapped.
What makes Eleanor Wish an interesting character is that she is complex and somewhat enigmatic. She’s strong and capable and it’s easy to see why she and Bosch develop a relationship. She’s not the ‘bad guy’ in the divorce either. The two don’t break up because she is malicious, jealous or greedy. It’s a painful experience for both of them and in fact, Bosch never really stops caring for her. Even after the couple ends their marriage, she figures into the way Bosch thinks and remains an influential character.
We meet another interesting ex in Camilla Läckberg’s series featuring crime writer Erica Falck and her husband Patrik Hedström. This series takes place mostly in the small fishing town of Fjallbacka, Falck’s home town, where most people know each other. When she first moves back to Fjallbacka in The Ice Princess, one of the people Falck is glad to see again is her ex Dan. She and Dan were high school lovers and had planned to stay together. But as it turned out they wanted different things. Falck wanted to leave Fjallbacka, where she felt smothered at the time. Dan, on the other hand, wanted to stay. He was content with the small-town life of fishing, hockey and family.
Dan’s an appealing character in that he’s bright, interesting, and if I can put it this way, comfortable. He’s not pretentious, and it’s easy to talk to him. It makes a great deal of sense that he and Falck would have fallen in love. And even now, ‘though it’s been years since they were a couple, they are still close friends and understand each other. This relationship adds to the series in a few ways. First, it offers some backstory and an interesting perspective on Falck. Dan’s known her for years and that allows readers to get to know her. Second, Dan himself grows and evolves as a character as the series goes on. He’s a ‘regular’ whom we get to know as part of the fabric of the town and of Falck’s life. Third, and perhaps this is just my opinion, so feel free to differ with me if you do, but it’s refreshing to have an ‘ex’ relationship that isn’t full of bitterness and recrimination. Oh, there are some awkward moments, but overall, it’s a relationship that adds to the series.
Henning Mankell’s Kurt Wallander also has an interesting ex Mona. In Faceless Killers, Wallander is six months into the single life after Mona left him. As we find out though, she didn’t leave him out of greed, spite or infidelity. She found it impossible to live with Wallander’s way of making his job a priority. And the breakup has been hard on her too. As she tells her ex,
‘I wish you could understand that it wasn’t your fault. I was the one who felt that the breakup was necessary. I was the one who decided.’
She’s not a bad person, and that makes her interesting. She cares about her ex-husband and their daughter Linda and although she is not at all a perfect person, she matters deeply to Wallander. Here’s one of his thoughts about her (from The Troubled Man):
‘Even if I were to fall head over heels with another woman today, Mona will always be the most important woman in my life. That is a fact that can never be changed. New love might replace an earlier love, but the old love is always there, no matter what.’
Mona may no longer be a daily part of Wallander’s life, but she matters to him and she’s woven into the series.
And then there’s Mick Houghton, ex-boyfriend of Jill Edmondson’s Toronto PI Sasha Jackson. Houghton’s a rocker and he and Jackson met as bandmates. In fact, as we learn in Blood and Groom, they played in the band for several years before they started dating. The two developed a passionate relationship but from Jackson’s perspective, they fought too much and weren’t stable enough as a couple. It was only musically that they were really in harmony – yes, pun intended.
But even though they’ve broken up, Jackson likes and trusts Houghton. They know each other very well and they really are fond of each other. When she needs him most, Jackson knows she can depend on Houghton’s help. Houghton isn’t a bad person and although he’s hardly perfect, we can see how he’d be attractive. That relationship is an interesting thread running through this series and it’s refreshing to see exes who may not have been a good couple but can be friends.
And that’s the thing about well-written exes. Oh, it’s fun to have exes whom we ‘love to hate.’ But the best exes give us perspective on the sleuth and are interesting and likeable enough characters that we can see why the sleuth would’ve loved them in the first place.













Great idea for a post irrespective of the alphabetical imperative, Margot! I can’t think of too many exes other than your good cases here, though Kinsey Millhone has/had a nice one and a nasty one. Elvis Cole in Robert Crais’s books has an ex but she does not help with investigations and she doesn’t seem very popular with readers who seem to hope they will not get back together..
Maxine – Why, thank you
- You’re right too about Kinsey Millhone’s exes. Interesting characters actually and they do give us some perspective on how she’s developed. And of course I’d forgotten about Elvis Cole’s ex (shame on me!). Thanks for reminding me of her. Now you mention it there’s also Robert B. Parker’s Jese Stone and his ex, Jenn. Hmmm….maybe I’ll come back to this topic sometime. Thanks for the inspiration.
Ooh, very cheeky Margot – but I like it!
Sergio – Why, thank you
Quite an idea for a post on “x” in the mystery alphabet. One other character that springs to mind is Maggie “McFierce,” ex-spouse of Michael Connelly’s lawyer Mickey Haller. They have a complicated relationship, often professionally adversial, except when they collaborate in The Fifth Witness. McFierce is well-played by Marisa Tomei in The Lincoln Lawyer.
And Livia may well become an “ex” if Salvo Montalbano doesn’t straighten himself out and stop the romantic meanderings!
Kathy – Thanks
– And thank you for mentioning ‘McFierce.” I thought of including her as I like her character. But I’d already included Connelly’s Eleanor Wish, so I’m glad you took the initiative. You’ve got a good point about Livia, too. She isn’t going to wait around forever while Salvo Montalbano gets over this spate of mid-life wandering, so to speak.
Great topic, Margot! One ex I really missed was Kinsey’s Bob Dietz. I keep waiting for him to come back into her life, but maybe he’s being saved for the big finish in Z. Marsh Tanner walked off into the sunset with Jill Coppelia at the end of Stephen Greenleaf’s series, leaving behind another interesting ex, Peggy Nettleton.
Anne – Thank you
– And I wonder too whether we’ll see Bob Dietz again. I wouldn’t be shocked… Now I admit I’m less familiar with Greenleaf’s John Tanner series, but I agree that Peggy Nettleton’s an interesting ex, and Tanner’s got that knee-jerk reaction to her.
That Wallander quote from “The Troubled Man” is wonderful, Margot – it really does give a humanizing insight into his character. I haven’t read Henning Mankell, but if that’s indicative of the quality of his writing, I’m going to have to add him to the TBR list.
Les – I like Mankell’s work very much and I agree, his writing’s terrific. I do hope you’ll get the chance to try this series. If you do, may I suggest you start with Faceless Killers? This series is best enjoyed in order in my opinion.
Margot: One of your most clever topics for the Alphabet.
Lawyers have also not always been lucky in love,
Arthur Beauchamp, the creation of William Deverell, has an ex, Annabelle, who is interested in returning to his personal life.
And if I may add a twist to your post Rusty Sabich from the books of Scott Turow creates a pair of exes with the death of a lover and a wife in Presumed Innocent and Innocent.
Bill – Thank you
– And you’ve got a point about lawyers. Of course there is Gail Bowen’s Zack Shreve, who’s been lucky in love in recent years. But yes, there’s Beauchamp, Mickey Haller and others…
And you are welcome to add any twist you’d like to this post (or any post I write). Scott Turow’s Rusty Sabich is a great example of an attorney who does indeed create his own exes.
Another great idea for a post- and I love how you have tied it to the alphabet.
Guess the timings a detective keeps makes it almost impossible for him/ her to find a good work-life balance. Rare are the happily married detectives, I think.
Natasha – Thank you
– You have a well-taken point too about the time issue. Sleuths, especially professional sleuths, have to spend a lot of time on their cases, and sometimes they work very odd hours. Little wonder really when home life starts to suffer.
Clever use of X! I think exes could be a great way to add conflict or texture to a novel…or just to stir the pot a little bit.
Elizabeth – Why, thank you
– Glad you enjoyed. And yes indeed, having exes involved in a story can add tension, a layer of character development and lots more. And for murder mysteries, exes can make good suspects too.
Apart from Livia, all these exes seem to be North American. By way of redress, here’s one from Australia. Peter Corris, author of the Cliff Hardy series, came up with an interesting twist in The Other Side of Sorrow. His ex, Cynthia, whom he hasn’t heard from in twenty years, and an interesting character in her own right, is dying and contacts him with the news that she was pregnant when she left him and they have a daughter. Cliff has had a long career as a private eye – there are over 35 novels and many short stories -and actually has acquired a good few exes, including one he shares with her husband for a while, each having half a year with her. Many of these, and his daughter Megan, appears in more than one book, and he seems to prefer complex and independent women.
Anne – Thank you for making my post more international. I always very much appreciate that. I’m not as familiar with Corris’ work as I should be and you’ve reminded me of that. Thanks for that as well.
A very interesting take on “X”…I hadn’t thought about how many detectives wind up with exes…or just marriage troubles because of the odd hours they keep, etc.
Bev – Thank you
– You know, I hadn’t originally thought about how many exes there are either until I really started, well, thinking about it. But there really are a lot of them. And you’ve got a point too. The life of a sleuth, especially a professional sleuth like a cop, isn’t always conducive to a stable home life.
I like your choice for X… Been trying to think of an Ex you missed but my mystery databank is failing. Great post.
Tracy – Thank you
– And you wouldn’t believe how often my data banks fail…
Great choice for X. The number of cases the Exes bring for our detectives is incredible.
Thanks very much
. And yes, indeed there are plenty of exes in crime fiction…